Rules - preggie mummy

May 18, 2006

Rules - preggie mummy

General


1) i submit to the will of my Master and i am bound to Him. i accept His authority over me for my purpose is to serve, obey and please my Master. i will work hard to give my Master control and turn my will over to Him. i know this is my duty and i desire to serve and please Him by doing so.
2) i will always show respect for my Master. i will find ways to serve Him and demonstrate my worth. The opportunity to please my Master is very important to me and i will seek out ways to do so. i am allowed no secrets from my Master and i will work hard to welcome this openness of body, mind and soul.
3) If i displease my Master i desire that He inform me so that i can correct my actions. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel than when my Master is not pleased with me. i will accept the guidance i need to be put back on track, so that i will be forgiven and once again be pleasing to Him.
4) When i am not in the presence of my Master and i have choices to make, i will decide them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance He has established for me. i will try hard to balance the needs of my children with those of my Master. i will find ways to maintain our dynamic without affecting the upbringing of our children, under His guidance.


Communication


5) Communication with my Master is one of the most important aspects of my development. i will not hesitate when responding to my Master. i am responsible for all words that i speak and i will always listen with a strong interest to whatever my Master has to say. i will not swear or use bad language, disrespectful words or negative tones of voice.
6) i must be both specific and explicit in my speech. i will give complete and accurate answers to each and every question that my Master asks of me. If i have to answer a request or question negatively i will give a full reason as to why this is.
7) When we are alone i will always address my Master as 'Sir' or 'Master', will use 'please' and 'thank-you' appropriately and respond "yes Sir" to all commands. i will obtain permission to speak by tilting my head to one side and waiting for His verbal "yes libby?" In the presence of our children i will use whatever forms of address seem most appropriate and may speak freely but with respect.
8) i will willingly discuss any issues i have that limit my trust, with my Master. Any feeling of anger, fear or other counter-productive emotion will be expressed to my Master in order that He may find a way to correct these feelings. It is my duty to do so and is especially important whilst i am pregnant so my Master is aware of how i am feeling. These things can also be discussed during 'free talk time', when i am allowed to speak openly with my Master.

Requests


9) When we are alone i must ask my Master permission to leave His presence for any reason and i will ask my Master for permission to satisfy whatever need i have before acting on it. This includes getting food or drink, going to the toilet, getting a tissue etc. Whilst i am pregnant i am allowed to carry out an action without obtaining permission but only if necessary, for example if i need to run to the bathroom to be sick. In the presence of our children i should not ask permission, but instead should inform Him of what i plan to do. For example: “i’m just going to get a drink, would you like anything?”; thus giving my Master the opportunity to reply “actually could you do this first.....?”
10) Requests must be specific and detailed. For example i should not ask "Sir, please may i go to the bathroom?', but rather "Sir, please may i be excused to do a wee on the toilet?”.
11) Food such as chocolate, crisps and cakes are treats given at my Master's discretion and i may not request them. my health is important to my Master and i will eat properly. i am allowed to eat as much food as i want at mealtimes, in order to maintain a healthy weight. During my pregnancy my Master will be monitoring my food intake carefully, and will require me to eat regularly and healthily, and to drink adequate amounts of water. i will be allocated extra between-meal snacks whilst i am pregnant and am allowed to request specific food items when i desire them, but must still abide by my Master's decisions.
12) i may request a 'free talk time' at any time if i feel there is an important need for one. Such requests will usually be granted, although not necessarily straight away.

Clothing


13) Whilst i am pregnant i am allowed to wear comfortable, supportive clothing, but this should be pleasing and attractive to my Master whenever possible.
14) my basic attire in the presence of my Master while at home will be a supportive bra, T-shirt and my collar whilst i am pregnant, or in the presence of our children i am to wear the outfit He selected for me that morning with my necklace 'collar'. i am not allowed to wear shoes in the house unless specifically instructed to do so. i am to wear my uniform to work.
15) i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been taught when my Master commands of me to do so. i am to remove my clothes in the following order: top and skirt/dress, basque/bra, stockings. When i remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees.
16) The requirement to be naked in bed is lifted whilst i am pregnant, but i should try to wear as few clothes as possible. i will be allowed to wear a dressing-gown should i need to visit the children in the night.


Hygiene


17) When we are home alone i must always keep the bathroom door fully open when i am in there. In the presence of the children i am permitted to close the door but not to lock it. i am not allowed to use the toilet seat, but must sit directly onto the toilet itself. If my Master enters the bathroom whilst i am using it i must continue with what i am doing without feeling ashamed. Nothing about my body is to be hidden from Him, including toilet functions. i must ensure He has an unrestricted view of my actions.
18) my legs, underarms and pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth so that nothing of me is hidden from view. my pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times. i am required to shave my legs and underarms at least twice each week, but my Master will shave my pussy Himself whenever He has the opportunity to do so. Should this be less than twice a week i am required to make up the shortfall myself. i should apply the moisturising lotion and body powder provided by my Master to my pussy and underarms daily, in order to keep them smooth and free from irritation.
19) i must take a shower every morning, but when i do so i must not take too long. i am to remember that the shower is not for my pleasure or indulgence, but to keep my body clean for my Master. If i take too long i will be disciplined. To remind me of this: when i have finished washing i must rinse my entire body with only cold water for 1 minute on my back, 1 minute on my front and 1 minute on my pussy and ass. i am not to try to cover my body with my arms and hands during this or thereafter. i must then present myself to my Master in the bedroom and may be required to be inspected. i must wait for permission to dry myself.
20) my hair should be washed 3 times each week. i am only to use the hair and body products selected for me by my Master, to ensure that my skin is soft and smooth for Him and i smell pleasing to Him. i must use the Vitamin E cream my Master has provided on any areas of my body which are healing, in order to promote this process. my Master will apply such products as bio-oil and massage lotions as He sees fit during my pregnancy.


Chores


21) i am responsible for the laundry, ironing and tidying in the house, but i must only do as much of the household chores as i can cope with whilst i am pregnant. my Master will take care of the cooking, gardening, car maintenance and DIY tasks, and any additional chores i have not been able to complete, but i may be required to assist Him with these when necessary.
22) The shopping will be done by both of us. i am allowed to suggest things we buy but the final decision is down to my Master. i am allowed to spend my own money on whatever i wish to, although my Master would prefer me to consult Him when choosing clothes.
23) To assist me with the household chores whilst i am pregnant and bringing up our children, we will employ a cleaner to come to the house once every week. It is my responsibility to ensure that she does not access any areas she is not allowed to, and that all evidence of our D/s relationship is kept out of her sight.
24) If i am unable to complete my chores for any reason, such as illness or other circumstances, i must explain this to my Master and endeavour to catch up with my tasks as soon as possible. i must take care not to over-exert or exhaust myself in trying to do chores whilst i am pregnant, and must follow my Master's orders on which chores or tasks i am not allowed to attempt. In all situations our children come first and the chores can wait.

Routines


25) When my Master returns home from work i must try to be in the hall to greet Him as He enters the house, wait for a touch or verbal acknowledgement, then verbally welcome Him home. On entering a room my Master is in, or when He enters a room i am in, i must 'present' myself to Him. Both of these requirements are only if possible during my pregnancy, and there is no need to kneel if this is not possible for me. In the presence of our children i am to incline my head slightly to Him, instead of kneeling when 'presenting'.
26) i must start getting ready for bed by 11:00pm every night and earlier if i am tired. i am then to present myself by the side of the bed and request permission to get in. my Master may require to inspect me before granting this permission. The first thing i should say to my Master every morning and the last thing i should say to Him every night is "i am Yours, Master".
27) i must endeavour to offer my Master a blow job once every day, at whatever time is convenient to us both; my Master may accept or decline my offer. When giving this blow-job i must pleasure His cock with my mouth and my hands until He cums or instructs me to stop.
28) When a meal is ready i must wait for permission to sit and then to eat; in the presence of the children this will take the form of a subtle nod from my Master.

Posture


29) i must always remember how pleased my Master is when i think of myself as sexy and showing off my assets. my behaviour must always display a sexual content however subtle. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak or listen i will do so in a manner pleasing to my Master, and with confidence and pride. i will try to be as graceful and alluring as possible when moving and in positions, so my Master obtains pleasure from looking at me. i will remember that my Master finds my pregnant body particularly attractive, and will not feel embarrassed about my size, shape or movements during this time; but i will also be careful only to use positions and movements which are comfortable and possible for me.
30) i am not to cross my arms or legs, clench my hands closed, firmly shut my mouth or slouch in the house.
31) i will make eye contact with my Master when speaking or when my Master speaks to me, for my eyes are a gift only for my Master, not to be given to the floor or anyone else. When i am confused or asking a question i am to tilt my head to one side.
32) When we are alone i am to sit on the floor or on my cushion next to my Master's chair, so long as this remains comfortable for me whilst i am pregnant. i still require permission to sit on the sofa with my Master or on my chair at the dining table, but am now allowed to request these when i feel the need to. i may use my glider chair and footstool, and whatever pillows, cushions or supports i feel i need, without specific permission. i should ensure that i am sitting in whatever position is most comfortable to me during my pregnancy. In the presence of the children i am permitted to use all furniture, but my Master would appreciate it if i sometimes made the gesture of sitting at His feet or generally on the floor, at those times.

Positions


33) i will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me to the best of my abilities. i will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that He, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing. i know that by using the slave positions i am enabling my Master to better manage and use me. Whilst i am pregnant i will only be required to assume such positions as are still comfortable and safe for me to do so; these decisions will be reviewed regularly during discussions with my Master. These positions will only be required when our children are not present.
34) i am to move into each position in as controlled and graceful a manner as possible, being aware of how i look to my Master. i am to remain in each position until given another instruction, or unless it becomes uncomfortable for me to do so. i should use whatever cushions, supports and adaptations as are necessary or have been decided upon by my Master, in view of my pregnancy.
35) At the moment the positions i am required to practise and use are: 'present', 'display', 'inspection' (breasts, vagina, anus, mouth), 'kneel up', 'surrender', 'rest position', 'spank position', 'whip position', 'follow', 'heel', 'open', 'kneel forward', 'kneel back' and 'supine'. my Master will add to these positions as He sees fit. i am to remember that the position for 'present' when ordered by my Master is different to that required when greeting Him or entering a room etc.
36) i am to close my legs during all positions on days i feel unable to be used vaginally, to indicate to my Master that my pussy may be unavailable at that time. If told to 'present' to another Dom/me i should place my hands palm-down on my thighs to indicate that my pussy and ass are not available for Their sexual use.

Sexual use


37) my entire sexual being now belongs to my Master. i am a sexual and sensual being and my body is to be available for my Master’s use at all times. It is my Master’s choice as to how my body will be used to please him and i fully acknowledge that i no longer have ownership of my sexual being. During my pregnancy i am to communicate my feelings (both physical and mental) towards being used sexually on each day, in order to inform my Master's decisions.
38) i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Master. i am not allowed to ask permission to cum, but must wait until He tells me to and then cum as quickly and as hard as i can for Him. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it. Failure to receive permission before cumming will cause me to endure a punishment my Master will put upon me. i am permitted to cum r/l whilst scening on #P&H.
39) i will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from my Master. Doing so will also lead to a punishment.
40) my mouth, pussy and ass will be used as my Master wishes for His pleasure, taking into account my feelings and capabilities at the time, due to my pregnancy. When my Master's cock is put into my mouth and i am directed to suck it, i will do so as long as i am required to. my hands shall be placed behind my back so that during the sucking i can use my whole body to display my hunger to my Master, unless i am instructed to use my hands as well as my mouth on His cock. i will not restrict my Master's view of me. my Master's cum must never go to waste. i will swallow His cum as it is a gift to receive it. i will clean His cock with my mouth after He cums, without needing to be told to. When my Master puts His fingers or a toy to my mouth, i must kiss, lick and suck until He removes them/it.

Service


41) i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Master and will respond quickly to all orders given. When told to perform a duty for my Master i will do so without delay or question unless i do not understand the meaning of the order or these is some other reason i am unable to carry it out.
42) The needs of my Master must always come first before my own for they offer an opportunity to please Him. i must be attentive to the needs of my Master and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the way He has shown me. However i must place a high importance on the needs of my children and my pregnant body, and endeavour to communicate these to my Master as often as needed.
43) i will learn my Master's preferences and habits so i can anticipate and provide for His needs. i am to ensure that He always has a drink next to Him wherever He is in the house, and i am to offer such services as running Him a bath, bringing Him the newspaper and massaging His feet when i think He may require them.
44) i will be expected to also provide services for any Dom/me friends my Master invites to the house, within my current capabilities, unless They bring Their own subs to attend to Their needs, or unless the children are present.


Limits


45) The 'safeword' given to me by my Master can be spoken at any time, even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalise it my Master will show me how i can express it. my Master does not view a 'safeword' as a limitation of His authority, but as a means to ensure my safety. Because i am granted a 'safeword' i am expected to correctly use it. i can be punished if i attempt to use it for control or to set limits on my Master's authority. It is a safety device only. If i am gagged or otherwise unable to verbalise my safeword i am required to use the "two grunts" method - to call "red" i will grunt loudly twice in quick succession, repeatedly.
46) my 'safeword' is "red". my Master will always stop immediately when i say this word. i may also if getting close to my limits say "yellow". my Master is under no obligation to stop at the "yellow" warning, but will judge how to use the information. He may choose to ease off or change activities, but this is solely up to Him. my Master will use the "two squeezes" method with me during scenes, when i would find it difficult or distracting to reply to Him verbally - He will take my hand and squeeze it twice to mean "are you OK?". i am expected to respond by squeezing His hand twice to communicate "yes Sir, i am OK". If my Master does not feel me return the squeezes after 2 attempts, He will stop the scene to check my well-being more thoroughly.
47) my Master is aware that my tolerances for various activities will change frequently during my pregnancy, and i am expected to communicate these to my Master before and during any session. i will not be expected to undertake any further explorations of my limits during this time. At the moment my limits are: animals, children, scat, breath play, needles, blood, extreme pain, face slapping, spitting, single-tail whips.
48) my Master will never expect me to have another M/man's cock in my pussy or ass, but He may ask me to be used by other Dom/mes, play with other subs, serve at parties etc. i am allowed to refuse these requests if i feel uncomfortable about what is being required of me.


Punishment


49) i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my Master gives me so i can become a better submissive for Him. Details of all discipline and punishments, including photographs, will be kept in 'libby's learning folder' to serve as a reminder. A list of all items in 'libby's learning folder' and all punishments received will be kept on my blog. i will thank my Master for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given them.
50) my 'safeword', verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it. i must take it in full measure so that i will focus on the correction of my behaviour for the long term. However 'safewords' can be used when i am being disciplined. my Master will let me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behaviour.
51) i will be punished for breaking any of the rules set out here, any additional rules my Master may later impose, or for wilfully disobeying Him. i can expect punishments to be harsh and painful, but i am assured of my Master's forgiveness as soon as i have endured the punishment allocated. my Master will take my pregnancy into account before taking any decision to punish me, and in choosing which punishment to use, but i must be careful not to use my pregnancy as an excuse for bad behaviour. Punishments will be saved until such a time as the children are not present.
52) i will be disciplined if my Master feels i have not done a task to the best of my ability or for additional matters which arise outside of the rules. Discipline will not be as painful as a punishment, but it will serve to remind me to try harder in future. Some forms of discipline, such as restriction of privileges, may be carried out when around the children.

Leisure


53) i am allowed to remain in contact with my family, friends and colleagues, through phone calls, emails, letters, having them visit, visiting them and going out with them. i should inform my Master of any visits or arrangements to go out in good time, so my training and other duties can be rearranged if necessary.
54) i am permitted to watch the television or DVDs with my Master in the evenings and with the children during the day. i am allowed to request to watch specific programmes which i enjoy.
55) i am allowed access to my laptop, the internet and #bondage chatrooms. i must ensure that my use of the computer does not interfere with my other duties or requirements. i should bring the laptop to where my Master is, if possible, so i can be near Him whilst i am using it. i am allowed to serve other Dom/mes in the chatrooms. my Master would prefer it if i only served in pm those Dom/mes i know or am sure i can trust. The previous restrictions still apply, such as not giving out my photo or email address or specified information about me or my Master. Part of the conditions for being allowed to retain my computer privileges includes the keeping of an online blog/journal. i will not be punished for anything i write in my blog.
56) my wages from my job are mine for me to keep, after contributing to household bills, food money etc. i am allowed to spend them on whatever i wish to.

Children


57) my Master and i are agreed that we wish to raise our children to be as open-minded and accepting of others’ choices as possible, whilst still maintaining their innocence and protecting them from damaging influences. We will not practise our D/s relationship in an overt way in their presence, nor inform them of the type of dynamic we have. Should they ask questions as they get older, we will try to answer these as simply and honestly as we can.
58) my primary responsibility is to my children, then to my Master. Due to their vulnerability i will consider my children first when making all decisions, but must be ready to explain my reasoning to my Master as required. If certain rules, rituals or other aspects of the relationship need to be altered because of the children, then my Master will take care of this.
59) In decisions involving the children and their upbringing, i have an equal say with my Master. This is the only area in which i am afforded an equal voice, all other aspects of my life remain under His control. We will endeavour to provide good role models for our children in the way we relate to each other.
60) i will find ways in which to incorporate our dynamic in subtle ways, into our everyday life with the children present. my Master accepts that it will be difficult for me to maintain a balance between my roles of mother and slave, and will try to allocate specific times for full D/s interaction in order to make this easier for me.