A day in my life

May 25, 2007

A day in my life

A friend of mine asked recently what a normal day is like for me, so i thought i'd post it on here incase anyone else is interested. i'm going to describe a work day, because that shows how my submission is fitted in around other daily life commitments:

7.00am - i wake up naked, in bed with Sir, and the first thing i must do is say "i am Yours, Master", then we say good morning to each other and i wait for Him to untie my wrist cuffs from the bedpost and then i suck His cock until He cums or tells me to stop. Then i ask Him to take my buttplug out, and i ask permission to go for my shower (i take my buttplug with me to clean it). my Master showers in His bathroom at the same time i am showering in the main bathroom, but at the moment He follows me so He can instruct me to kneel and then piss on me as part of the toilet play training we are doing at the moment, and then He goes for His shower.

When i am using the bathroom i must always keep the door open, and i am not allowed to use the toilet seat when i sit on the toilet. i am meant to take a maximum of 12 minutes in the shower, the last 3 of which are spent using cold water as part of a reminder that the morning shower is not for my pleasure. i use the shower gel that Sir likes for me, and when i get out of the shower i apply moisturising lotion all over, talc to my pussy and underarms and vitamin E cream to any bruises or marks. Then i return to the bedroom, where Sir is usually already starting to get dressed, and i 'present' myself kneeling by the side of the bed. Often He just looks me over, but sometimes He does a more thorough inspection to check that i have followed His requirements. When He is finished i asked for permission to get myself dried and dressed.

7:30am - i get dried and dressed in my work uniform, with a basque, panties and stockings underneath. i am allowed to choose the underwear i wear under my work uniform, so i have settled on a compromise - the basque and stockings reminds me of who i am, whilst the panties help me feel 'decent' when i am sprawled on the floor with children! i brush my hair and put deodorant on, and then ask permission to go and get breakfast ready, taking the 2 towels with me on the way to drop into the laundry basket, and Sir's water glass from the night before to put in the sink. i prepare our breakfast which is usually cereal, toast and coffee for Sir, fruit juice for me, and as soon as it's done i go and find Sir (He is usually in the lounge by this time, but sometimes He is in His study or even in the bedroom still). Wherever He is, i kneel and tell Him that breakfast is ready, then i follow Him to the table and kneel by His chair until He tells me to sit down and then i wait for Him to tell me to eat.

8:00am - i wait until we have both finished eating, then i ask permission to clear the table and do the washing-up. i get both of our lunches out of the fridge (i make them the night before), and put them in our bags ready for work, then i ask permission to go and brush my teeth and make the bed. When i am ready to leave for work i kneel at Sir's feet and ask permission to leave the house, then we kiss and i wish Him a good day and go and get my shoes (and coat?) on, and my charm bracelet. i walk to work to arrive by 8:30am, and Sir drives to work shortly after i leave the house.

4:00pm - i leave work and walk home. i arrive home from work before Sir and the first thing i do when i get home is make sure i am wearing the right clothes: i take my shoes and coat off and leave them in the hall, then go to the bedroom to take off my work uniform and panties and my charm bracelet, and put my collar on. Then i do a quick tidy of the house, maybe put some washing on or do the hoovering, and probably start preparing dinner depending on what we're having or whether Sir's cooking that day or not (Sir usually cooks about twice a week, and He tells me in advance what days that will be. i plan the week's menu at the weekend and then take it to Sir for His approval and then we go shopping for the food together.) If i have time, i'll often go online to check my emails and perhaps do a blog post during this time.

5:00pm - Sir arrives home, so i try to listen out for His car so i can be kneeling in the hallway ready to greet Him when He comes in. He usually tilts my chin up to Him and says hello to me and then i am allowed to verbally greet Him and ask how His day was and stuff. i ask permission to take His shoes off for Him, then He usually goes into the lounge, and i ask permission to carry on with the dinner (again, unless He is cooking, in which case i would usually ask permission to do another chore like the ironing, make sure the table is set, etc). Whilst dinner is cooking i am usually flitting in and out, bringing Sir a drink, offering to rub His feet, etc, basically making sure He is well provided for. Everytime i enter the room that Sir is in i have to kneel by His feet, and wait for a "yes libby?" before i offer Him something or ask if He needs something.

6:00pm - when dinner is ready and served on the table, i go and kneel by Sir's feet to tell Him it is ready, then follow Him to the table, kneel by His chair, wait permission to sit on my chair and then wait permission again to start eating. Normally we chat about our day over dinner, or maybe what our plans are for the weekend, stuff like that. After dinner i ask permission to clear the table, then take Sir the newspaper and a drink into the lounge, and then ask permission to do the washing up and make the lunches for the next day if needed. Depending on how much time i have left i might ask permission to go for a quick shower to wash my hair, or to shave my legs and underarms, or to carry on with the ironing or whatever. Sir likes to be left in peace whilst He is reading the paper so it's a good idea to occupy myself with something and keep out of His way ;)

7:00pm ish - i ask permission to get my laptop so that i can chat online. Sir likes me to be laying across His lap (on my back with my bottom on His lap, my feet on one of the sofa arms and my head on the other) when i am using my laptop. Often He will watch TV or read a book during this time, and we chat to each other on and off as well. (i have to ask permission to ask Him a question, but i can reply to anything He says to me). i make sure that He always has a drink next to Him and often i ask permission to go and get my bunny out to hop around, but otherwise it is a pretty relaxed time for us.

11:00pm - i have to shut down the laptop and go upstairs, taking a glass of water for Sir with me. Normally Sir has already gone up a little while before, so i go and find Him in the bedroom and ask permission to get ready for bed. i wash, brush my teeth, brush my hair and take off the clothes i am wearing and my collar and then kneel by the side of the bed to ask permission to get in. Sometimes He inspects me first. When granted i get into bed and present my ass to Sir so He can put my butt plug in, and then give Him my wrists so He can put the cuffs on and tie them to the bedpost. Then we say goodnight, and i say "i am Yours Master" and we go to sleep.... or do other things, depending on Sir's wishes!

Actually i found this much harder to write than i thought i would because it's become so much a part of my normal life now that i kept forgetting stuff and having to go back to add it in. And also some days are different, because on Mondays we usually visit another D/s couple after work and Tuesdays Sir usually does a session with flamesoul so we have dinner a bit early, and Wednesdays sometimes we do a training session because Sir gets home for 4:00pm on those days. But i hope it gives a basic idea of my daily life. People can ask questions if they want to know more.