A day in my life - #2

July 30, 2008

A day in my life - #2

A while ago now i did a post describing a typical day in my life, as a slave. Well i thought it was probably about time i updated that with another post describing what a typical day in my life is like now as a mummy slave. i hope this post shows the balance between my 'slave' and 'mummy' roles, which i think i have managed to maintain really well so far....

6.00-6.30am - Poppy wakes up between these times for a feed, so i change her nappy and then feed her in bed, which usually takes about 20mins. i am required to sleep naked anyway, so there are no nightclothes to get out of the way, and i really enjoy the feeling of having her next to my skin. Sir usually gets woken up by Poppy too, but He will spend this time dozing and having a bit more sleep ready for His day at work. Then i normally get Poppy dressed and lay her back down for a little nap.

6.30-7.00am - i return to bed and we start our morning properly, with me saying "i am Yours, Master", and we chat for a little while, then i ask Him to take my buttplug out and i ask permission to go and clean it in the bathroom. Depending on how much time we have, i might ask to go downstairs and make Sir a cup of tea, which i bring up to the bedroom for Him, or i might offer Him a blowjob as stated in my rules (which He would usually accept!) Sir usually tells me to put a dressing gown or a T-shirt and some panties on for walking around the house before i get dressed properly later. Around 7.15am i ask permission to go and get Sir's shower running. While Sir is showering i ask to go downstairs and prepare breakfast for both of us, taking Sir's water glass from the night before with me.

7:30am - i try to be back upstairs in time to hand Sir His towel as He is getting out of the shower, then i ask Him what He wants to wear and i get His clothes out for Him and lay them neatly on the bed ready. While He is getting dressed i ask to go back downstairs to put His coffee on, then when everything is ready for breakfast i go and find Him (in the bedroom or the lounge) and 'present' to inform Him of this, follow Him to the table and kneel by His chair until He tells me to sit down, and then i wait for Him to tell me to eat.

8:00am - i wait until we have both finished eating, then i ask permission to clear the table and load the dishwasher. i get Sir's lunch out of the fridge (which i make the day before), and put it in His bag ready for work. Sometimes Poppy wakes up again, so i go and fetch her and change her, then wait for Sir to be ready to leave for work and follow Him through to the hall, where we kiss and i wish Him a good day.

8:30am - As soon as Sir has gone, my first job is to express some milk using the pump - this is for Poppy's bottle later in the day. Then i go back upstairs and have a quick shower and get dressed in the clothes which Sir has selected for me that day (He also selects 2 spare outfits in case of Poppy accidents along the way!) If Poppy is awake, i put her into her bouncer chair and leave her in the open doorway of the bathroom so she can see me whilst i am showering, but sometimes she wakes up in the middle of my shower and i have to get out dripping wet and go and fetch her! i put on my necklace collar and my charm bracelet, brush my hair, etc, etc.

9:00am - i usually try to get my chores for the day done fairly early, so i spend this time putting on wash loads, catching up with the ironing, generally tidying up round the house. We have a cleaner who comes every Wednesday afternoon and she is brilliant and does all the hoovering, dusting, cleaning, etc. and she will even do the ironing if she sees it needs doing. She is a great help and gives me a lot more time to spend with Poppy and Sir.

10:00am - Poppy is wanting another change and a feed around now, and then depending on what day it is, we usually have somewhere to go - Mondays there is the 'bumps and babies' group and then a visit to the clinic or the doctor, Tuesdays we usually pop into the village or into town or for a walk in the woods, Wednesdays we stay at home because we have a busy afternoon, Thursdays we have baby massage classes (and when they finish we are due to start baby signing classes) and Fridays we go to a postnatal support group. We both enjoy the chance to get out of the house and meet with other mummies and babies.

1:00pm - time for lunch, and i make Sir's lunch for the next day at the same time. If i am feeling energetic i might pop down the shops to stock up the cupboards, or make some meals to freeze for dinners later in the week.

2:00pm - another change and feed for Poppy, and then our afternoon playtime together (except for Wednesday afternoons when my mum looks after her while i go swimming). We usually start off with some songs and stories and games, then Poppy has some tummy time on her playgym and with her toys, then depending on how she is doing i might put her in her swing or bouncer seat for a while and we have a 'chat'. Sometimes she will have a little nap in between play sessions and sometimes she will stay awake for the whole afternoon.

3:30pm - massage time! Poppy and i love this part of the day the best because we really get to bond and it relaxes both of us. i never rush it, so it takes about 20mins to massage all of her then we snuggle together and usually we both take a nap!

5:00pm - Sir arrives home, so i try to listen out for His car so i can be in the hallway ready to greet Him when He comes in. He usually tilts my chin up to Him and says hello to me and then i am allowed to verbally greet Him and ask how His day was. i ask permission to take His shoes off for Him, then He usually goes and gets Poppy and sits for a while playing with her. Depending on what we're having, and whether Sir said He will cook or not, i usually ask permission to go and make/reheat the dinner, or if Sir is cooking then i take Poppy through to the kitchen and we watch Him cook while i get the table set and stuff. Often at this time Sir asks me about mine and Poppy's day, and i ask Him how work was, and we catch up with each other and how we are. i also make sure that Sir is well provided for after His day at work so i take Him a drink, offer to rub His feet, etc. We try to time dinner for 5:30pm, so that i can have eaten before Poppy wants her feed at 6:00ish. i wait for permission to sit and again to eat, which is given by a little nod from Sir. We usually have Poppy at the table with us for dinner, unless she is napping in the lounge.

6:00pm - After dinner i ask permission to clear the table and load the dishwasher, then take Sir the newspaper and a drink into the lounge. Then it's time to change and feed Poppy again (though often Sir will change her while i am clearing up in the kitchen), then i will usually ask permission to go and wash my hair or shave my legs/underarms or some other personal grooming task which is difficult to do when it's just me and Poppy! Sir likes to be left alone for a while after dinner to relax and read His newspaper anyway, so it is a good idea to occupy myself and take advantage of the fact that He can be watching Poppy at the same time.

7:00ish - we all snuggle down in the lounge together for the evening. i usually ask permission to get my laptop so that i can chat online, and often Sir will watch TV or read a book during this time, and we chat to each other on and off as well. i make sure that He always has a drink next to Him and sometimes i ask permission to go and get my bunny out to hop around, but otherwise it is a pretty relaxed time for us. Poppy is usually sleeping at this point, but if she is awake Sir will take the opportunity to sing or read or chat to her.

8:30pm - Sir takes Poppy upstairs and gets her ready for bed. Sometimes He will give her a bath, but usually it is a quick wash and clean nappy, change into her sleeper bag, and then He gives her a small amount of milk from a bottle. We do this so that it gives Sir a chance to feed Poppy and to keep her used to drinking from a bottle and from different people, and to fill her tummy a bit more for the night. Then He tucks Poppy up in her cot. This is a really important part of the day for Sir and Poppy and He likes to be able to do this part on His own, which i think is good bonding time for the two of them.

10:00pm - Sir usually goes upstairs to the bedroom, but not to sleep. He likes to take some time to relax in the quiet and the dark before bedtime and He will see to Poppy if she wakes up or needs changing too.

11:00pm - i shut down the laptop and go upstairs, taking a glass of water for Sir with me. i go and find Sir in the bedroom and ask permission to get ready for bed. i wash, brush my teeth, brush my hair and take off the clothes i am wearing and my necklace/bracelet and then ask permission to get into bed. When granted i get in and present my ass to Sir so He can put my butt plug in. Then we snuggle together for a while until Poppy wants to be changed and fed, sometimes i will offer Sir a blow job at this time. After Poppy is all settled down for the rest of the night i ask to get back into bed, then i say "i am Yours Master" and we all go to sleep (until Poppy wakes at about 2:00am for her nightly feed and Sir changes her nappy, yay!)

Obviously every day is different, but this gives a basic idea of my routine, and how we fit the D/s around having a baby to care for. i hope it also shows how my new rules are being implemented and how we will be able to adapt our interactions as Poppy grows older, so that we maintain the D/s elements without affecting her. If anyone has any questions, please feel free to ask.