another 20 questions

December 30, 2009

another 20 questions

subtletimes recently posted 20 BDSM questions on her blog, so i thought i'd play along and answer them:

1.Your role?

i am a real-life slave.

2. Current relationship?

Owned by my first ever Master, who is also my husband and father to my children (one yet unborn).

3. Your favourite type of play?

Changes all the time, depending on my mood. But i most love bondage, hogties, being taken from behind, anal use, clamps and clips, nipple torture, pain play and floggings.

4. Your most hated type of play?

i hate the wooden pony much more than i thought i would, and i often hate humiliation play when it's occuring though i like it after.

5. The most annoying habit of your Owner?

Sir doesn't have many annoying habits, which is good. But He does sometimes get peckish and devour half the fridge, including ingredients for meals i've planned for later in the week, and then doesn't tell me. Which is really annoying when i come to prepare those meals and suddenly find out i'm missing half the ingredients. He does do other things as well which i guess people in vanilla relationships would find annoying, like leaving his dirty clothes and wet towels strewn all over the place, but because i'm His slave i just see it as my job to pick them up and launder them.

6. Your deepest fear?

That something will happen to Sir, that we will be parted somehow. Otherwise i'm most afraid of dogs.

7. Your most memorable public experience?

When Sir took me to a play party for the first time, and i had to walk round in a rather revealing outfit, and He even got my titties out at one point to show someone. Otherwise i haven't had many public experiences yet, it's something Sir plans to work on in future.

8. What gets you in the mood?

Many things - it can be a certain look or tone of voice from Sir, something He says or hints at. And i'm pretty visual, so seeing erotic pictures or videos or perving at Sir will do it everytime!

9. Favourite method of masturbation?

Not allowed to masturbate without permission, and not allowed to choose the method when i do. But i do like my Lelo Lily vibrator.

10. Scariest thing you've seen or heard of in BDSM land?

Not going to name any names, but some of the things i read about on other people's blogs scare me sometimes. And anything to do with cutting or breath play scares me a lot.

11. Number of hours you spend on iFet when you should be doing other things?

Don't know what that is, but if it's related to Fetlife i'm not allowed on there. i am lucky with my internet privileges but i have to be careful to only come on here when i am allowed to, and never let it interfere with other things, otherwise Sir will start taking those privileges away.

12. Thing that was hotter in fantasy than it was in reality?

i used to love watching all the clips from WaterBondage.com, but when Sir did some water torture/play on me it was too cold and too intense for me.

13. Most longed-for experience?

i really want to try fisting, but we'll have to put that on hold until after i've had this next baby and properly healed. It looks hot though.

14. Ouchiest toy?

the tower of pain, or the wooden pony or this nasty flogger Sir has that really feels like it's cutting.

15. Book or movie that every newbie has to read/see?

Prolly 'Screw the roses, send me the thorns' to read, not sure about seeing maybe 'The Secretary' though i haven't seen that myself yet.

16. Thing you'd most like to change about yourself?

i would like to have more self-confidence, though i have got much better with that since knowing Sir.

17. Thing you're most proud of?

The way i have been able to balance my mummy and slave roles so well. There have been a few hiccups, but mainly i think i have achieved a good balance :)

18. Funniest Dom name you've ever heard?

Lots of the Dom names online make me giggle, but i'd better not post them here incase they read this. Things like 'LordMasterDomoftheWorld' though.

19. Do your friends and family know?

Only my sister does, and she approached me to ask about it. None of my other family or vanilla friends know, though i do have a BDSM 'family' and friends, and they all know of course.

20. Is 20 questions too many?

i thought it might be, but it's been quite quick to answer them, so no maybe not.

If anyone else would like to play along, please leave your answers in a comment or post a link to where you answer them on your blog :)