March 21, 2010
formspring.me #11
Do you know any websites that I can find a slave on the internet (cyber) for free?
i am going to include 2 other questions in this answer because they are similar:
'May I know where to find an official slave?'
'Can you recommend a nice chat site for a submissive to speak with others like yourself and learn more?'
The first question is actually the easiest to answer because there are lots of sites on the internet where it is possible to find those who profess to be slaves, and engage in cyber-sex scenes with them: CollarMe.com, Alt.com, Bondage.com all spring to mind as do FetLife and the Fetish Exchange. Then there are all the chatrooms that can be accessed through the Bondage.com website and through the bondage channel (6667) on IRC, where there are many willing 'slaves' ready and waiting to cyber with the Dom of their dreams. i believe that the Bondage.com site even has webcam channels where you can see your 'slave' as well as chat to them. Of course some of those sites may require a registration fee but not all of them do, and the reason i use 'slave' like that is because many of those you come across online are not the slaves/subs or Masters/Doms that they profess to be. But if you just want a bit of BDSM cyber i don't think you'll mind.
To find an 'official' slave would be more tricky, though it is possible to do so online - just look at the way me and Sir first met. So you could try a BDSM chatroom or message board and see if you end up lucky. Otherwise i would suggest finding out about your local BDSM group and going along to one of their munches (informal gatherings), play parties or other meetings, to chat with others there, get to know them, perhaps get to scene with some of them, and maybe find the slave of your dreams!
The chatroom question seems easy when i first read it, but i guess a lot of it is down to preference. If you go to the Bondage.com website and access the chatrooms through there, or through the bondage channel (6667) on IRC you can browse through lots of different BDSM rooms to find one you like. Some of them are scening rooms, some are chat only, some are very busy, some very quiet. i guess it just takes patience to find one you like, but i would suggest finding out the rules of the room when you first enter (try typing !rules), being respectful (use 'Sir' and 'Ma'am' if required), watching for a while first and then maybe asking a question or two in the main channel and seeing who responds. Often there are people (Dom and sub) who are willing to help coach and mentor newbies, so it's just a case of finding them. And when you start going back to the same room regularly you will make friends who you can chat to about anything! Good luck!
libby
xxxxx
'May I know where to find an official slave?'
'Can you recommend a nice chat site for a submissive to speak with others like yourself and learn more?'
The first question is actually the easiest to answer because there are lots of sites on the internet where it is possible to find those who profess to be slaves, and engage in cyber-sex scenes with them: CollarMe.com, Alt.com, Bondage.com all spring to mind as do FetLife and the Fetish Exchange. Then there are all the chatrooms that can be accessed through the Bondage.com website and through the bondage channel (6667) on IRC, where there are many willing 'slaves' ready and waiting to cyber with the Dom of their dreams. i believe that the Bondage.com site even has webcam channels where you can see your 'slave' as well as chat to them. Of course some of those sites may require a registration fee but not all of them do, and the reason i use 'slave' like that is because many of those you come across online are not the slaves/subs or Masters/Doms that they profess to be. But if you just want a bit of BDSM cyber i don't think you'll mind.
To find an 'official' slave would be more tricky, though it is possible to do so online - just look at the way me and Sir first met. So you could try a BDSM chatroom or message board and see if you end up lucky. Otherwise i would suggest finding out about your local BDSM group and going along to one of their munches (informal gatherings), play parties or other meetings, to chat with others there, get to know them, perhaps get to scene with some of them, and maybe find the slave of your dreams!
The chatroom question seems easy when i first read it, but i guess a lot of it is down to preference. If you go to the Bondage.com website and access the chatrooms through there, or through the bondage channel (6667) on IRC you can browse through lots of different BDSM rooms to find one you like. Some of them are scening rooms, some are chat only, some are very busy, some very quiet. i guess it just takes patience to find one you like, but i would suggest finding out the rules of the room when you first enter (try typing !rules), being respectful (use 'Sir' and 'Ma'am' if required), watching for a while first and then maybe asking a question or two in the main channel and seeing who responds. Often there are people (Dom and sub) who are willing to help coach and mentor newbies, so it's just a case of finding them. And when you start going back to the same room regularly you will make friends who you can chat to about anything! Good luck!
libby
xxxxx
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