Tribute to my Sir

April 29, 2010

Tribute to my Sir

i am coming more and more to realise during these difficult weeks as we wait to find out more news on William, that in a M/s relationship the strength of the Master is often what holds both parties together when things get tough. i honestly don't think i would be able to carry on with looking after Poppy, going to work, doing the normal daily things in life, if it weren't for the support of my Sir. i know He is right behind me at all times anyway, but it becomes especially noticeable when i am going through a tough time, like now and during my post-natal depression, He just becomes like a rock which i can totally rely upon and He seems to know just what i need to make me feel a bit better and to get me through each day. Even though Sir is going through the same difficulties as i am right now, and it must be hard on Him too, He never thinks about Himself but works tirelessly to see that i am OK, and for that i am so grateful. i found this poem on another blog:
http://mydominanthusband.blogspot.com/2010/02/man-master-by-daddy-denial.html?zx=a2a62d9b5c101679
and wanted to repost it here as i think it says a lot about the kind of traits a good Master has, and which my Sir has in abundance.

A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you;
A Man who displays humility will be a Master who shows you respect;
A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears;
A Man who is quiet will be a Master who hears your quietest whisper;
A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone;
A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words;
A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight;
A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way;
A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share;
A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give;
A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from;
A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms;
A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path;
A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you;
A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you;
A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing;
A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

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