August 24, 2010
formspring.me #52
What makes your pussy wet during the day, other than sexual acts? Are there some thoughts, feelings, memories or things that your Owner makes you do that arouses you and that aren't strictly related to sex but make you wet anyway?
Normally things which make me wet are related to sexual things/ Sir teasing me, or i see a picture of some pretty bewbies or i am reminded of something was happened previously where i was aroused. It's not like i get wet while peeling potatoes for Sir's dinner or anything, although i do enjoy serving Him and doing things for Him it's not a sexual enjoyment. So i guess the only times i get wet when perhaps a vanilla person wouldn't are when i kneel for Him and also when He uses certain phrases/names for me such as 'little one' or 'good girl' - even if they're not said in a sexual context they still make me shivery inside.
I was wondering how you sleep comfortably with your hands tied at night, and if you need to use the bathroom, does Sir become upset when you have to wake him? Also aren't you afraid of there being a fire?
Having my wrist cuffs tied to the bedpost is something that no longer happens, not since i got pregnant with Poppy. However when it used to be done every night, to be honest i hardly ever needed to go to the loo in the night and if i did Sir was fine about me waking Him - it would have been weird for Him not to be considering He was the one who made that rule. There was never a safety concern with having my wrists tied because Sir used a certain type of knot that if pulled hard enough would come undone so that if there was an emergency i would have been able to get out. And the rope was made long enough for me to be able to turn over, but not long enough for me to get it wrapped round my neck. After about a week or so i got used to sleeping with my hands up and i actually found it comfroting in a way to be bound like that by my Sir - it made me know that i was His even in my sleep.
Has there ever been a situation when you said something to Sir about a situation and he said you were wrong and went along with his opinion, but it turned out you were right?
Not that i can think of. Although i am a slave, Sir does allow me to express my thoughts and feelings and opinions to Him and He does take them into consideration when making decisions. There have been times when i have gone along with His decision because i have to, but haven't been happy about it, and then it's turned out that Sir was right all along, but i can't think of the reverse happening. The closest example i can think of is when i wanted to send some of my money to help out someone close to me but Sir said no - that's not exactly a right/wrong situation though. And to be honest there may well be a time when it turns out that my opinion on something was 'right' and Sir's decision was 'wrong', He is human after all, but all the times He has rightly guided me will more than make up for any mistakes He might make.
My question is regarding D/s relationships and children, specifically playrooms and children. Although one can keep a playroom locked and off limits to children, at some point they must become curious. How do you address this when the room is discovered?
People seem to get so obsessed over this, as it's a question i have had many times. Our playroom/'dungeon' is in the barn, which is a separate building from our house. It has solid walls, sturdy doors, no windows and is kept completely locked with no way to break in or peek inside. It has been made very secure, so that burglars etc can't break in, so how children will i do not see. Sir has the only key and even i don't know where He keeps it. He only opens it when the children are not at home and will not be back for a long time, and once we are in there He locks the doors from the inside. So how will it be 'discovered' by our children? When i was growing up the shed at the bottom of the garden was off limits to us because it was where my dad kept all his tools and dangerous chemicals etc (not scientific stuff, just white spirit and creosote and the like). i don't remember being the least bit curious or wanting to look in there, i just accepted that it was off limits to me. And i don't see why our children should be any different. If for some unknown reason our children do see inside our playroom somehow, we will deal with it at the time in the best way we can, but i honestly can't see it happening.
Hi libby, i'm fairly new to the scene and i was just asking about how to go about finding my feet. I am a submissive and I want to get to know other subs before I find a Master and/or a Mistress, do you think this sounds like a wussy way out?
No, not at all. i think it is important to get to know more about your own submission, your needs and desires as well as your limits before you enter into any sort of relationship with a Dominant, and one way to do that is to talk to more experienced subs, so you can ask them questions and learn from them. But if you're planning on doing this online, please remember that the majority of people you meet will only have online experience, and many of them are players/fantasists only, so what they tell you may not be relevant to a real-life situation if that is what you're ultimately hoping for. Good luck.
That's all the questions in my formspring account answered now, apart from the really irrelevant ones or the ones which were obviously written by time-wasters (e.g. 'do you fasten your bra at the back and then pull it down, or at the front and then twist it round?') or the ones which weren't questions at all but were comments. Please feel free to ask more questions if you have them.
I was wondering how you sleep comfortably with your hands tied at night, and if you need to use the bathroom, does Sir become upset when you have to wake him? Also aren't you afraid of there being a fire?
Having my wrist cuffs tied to the bedpost is something that no longer happens, not since i got pregnant with Poppy. However when it used to be done every night, to be honest i hardly ever needed to go to the loo in the night and if i did Sir was fine about me waking Him - it would have been weird for Him not to be considering He was the one who made that rule. There was never a safety concern with having my wrists tied because Sir used a certain type of knot that if pulled hard enough would come undone so that if there was an emergency i would have been able to get out. And the rope was made long enough for me to be able to turn over, but not long enough for me to get it wrapped round my neck. After about a week or so i got used to sleeping with my hands up and i actually found it comfroting in a way to be bound like that by my Sir - it made me know that i was His even in my sleep.
Has there ever been a situation when you said something to Sir about a situation and he said you were wrong and went along with his opinion, but it turned out you were right?
Not that i can think of. Although i am a slave, Sir does allow me to express my thoughts and feelings and opinions to Him and He does take them into consideration when making decisions. There have been times when i have gone along with His decision because i have to, but haven't been happy about it, and then it's turned out that Sir was right all along, but i can't think of the reverse happening. The closest example i can think of is when i wanted to send some of my money to help out someone close to me but Sir said no - that's not exactly a right/wrong situation though. And to be honest there may well be a time when it turns out that my opinion on something was 'right' and Sir's decision was 'wrong', He is human after all, but all the times He has rightly guided me will more than make up for any mistakes He might make.
My question is regarding D/s relationships and children, specifically playrooms and children. Although one can keep a playroom locked and off limits to children, at some point they must become curious. How do you address this when the room is discovered?
People seem to get so obsessed over this, as it's a question i have had many times. Our playroom/'dungeon' is in the barn, which is a separate building from our house. It has solid walls, sturdy doors, no windows and is kept completely locked with no way to break in or peek inside. It has been made very secure, so that burglars etc can't break in, so how children will i do not see. Sir has the only key and even i don't know where He keeps it. He only opens it when the children are not at home and will not be back for a long time, and once we are in there He locks the doors from the inside. So how will it be 'discovered' by our children? When i was growing up the shed at the bottom of the garden was off limits to us because it was where my dad kept all his tools and dangerous chemicals etc (not scientific stuff, just white spirit and creosote and the like). i don't remember being the least bit curious or wanting to look in there, i just accepted that it was off limits to me. And i don't see why our children should be any different. If for some unknown reason our children do see inside our playroom somehow, we will deal with it at the time in the best way we can, but i honestly can't see it happening.
Hi libby, i'm fairly new to the scene and i was just asking about how to go about finding my feet. I am a submissive and I want to get to know other subs before I find a Master and/or a Mistress, do you think this sounds like a wussy way out?
No, not at all. i think it is important to get to know more about your own submission, your needs and desires as well as your limits before you enter into any sort of relationship with a Dominant, and one way to do that is to talk to more experienced subs, so you can ask them questions and learn from them. But if you're planning on doing this online, please remember that the majority of people you meet will only have online experience, and many of them are players/fantasists only, so what they tell you may not be relevant to a real-life situation if that is what you're ultimately hoping for. Good luck.
That's all the questions in my formspring account answered now, apart from the really irrelevant ones or the ones which were obviously written by time-wasters (e.g. 'do you fasten your bra at the back and then pull it down, or at the front and then twist it round?') or the ones which weren't questions at all but were comments. Please feel free to ask more questions if you have them.
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