November 27, 2010
formspring.me #62
Because BDSM refers to and encompasses such a wide variety of activities and lifestyles, there's quite a lot of things that i would not do myself and don't necessarily agree with, but most of those are personal preferences and i have no problems with other people doing/liking them. There's a few things like bestiality, breathplay and total isolation from the outside world that i consider 'wrong' from a moral, ethical or safety point of view, but on the whole i stick by the whole 'your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK' philosophy.
Is it necessary to always say "being used" don't you think that cheapens the act?In a way i don't think it matters what words different people use to refer to different things - if someone chooses to say 'fuck' or 'screw' rather than 'making love' or 'sleeping together' it doesn't change the fact that it's sex. But in another way the words we use to describe different acts show how we feel about them and how they affect us, and for me as Sir's slave it is important that He uses me and that i am of use to Him because that's my role, that's our dynamic, that's what we both need. So while it may seem 'cheap' to you, it feels natural and right to us.
Is it necessary to always say "being used" don't you think that cheapens the act?In a way i don't think it matters what words different people use to refer to different things - if someone chooses to say 'fuck' or 'screw' rather than 'making love' or 'sleeping together' it doesn't change the fact that it's sex. But in another way the words we use to describe different acts show how we feel about them and how they affect us, and for me as Sir's slave it is important that He uses me and that i am of use to Him because that's my role, that's our dynamic, that's what we both need. So while it may seem 'cheap' to you, it feels natural and right to us.
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