February 24, 2011
formspring.me #67
Our Son is aware of our lifestyle. He wants to be a master like his dad. What is the appropiate age for him to begin training.
i'm not even sure how to go about answering this, as the subject of children and BDSM is a tricky one. Personally i don't think that children should be exposed to the lifestyle, just as they shouldn't be exposed to sexual or adult content while they're still children. Of course if questions arise (as they might do about sex in general) i think they should be answered in a basic way but still without corrupting the child's innocence - to me it's definitely possible to expose a child to too much, too soon. And to be honest i wouldn't discuss the details of my vanilla sex life with my children, so why should i discuss the fact that i'm in the BDSM lifestyle? Obviously i don't know how old your son is, and he may well be grown up and old enough to make his own decisions about these things. But for some reason i feel uncomfortable about a son following in his father's footsteps in this way, and i certainly feel uncomfortable about a father training his son up to be a Dom/Master. Sorry just my view.
Someone kind of asked this before, but it was a little vague....about do you wish you had met Sir earlier. Personally, do you wish that you had been introduced into BDSM earlier and met Sir Earlier? Like Early/Mid 20's instead of late?
i don't really see how that would have made my life better in any way. It would only have meant that i would have been married sooner and possibly had children sooner, but i don't consider myself to be an old mum, so i don't really see that as an advantage. i guess maybe if i'd known about BDSM in my early 20s and met Sir then we could have had more time together just as a D/s couple, training and stuff, before settling down to make a family. But then again i don't think i was ready character-wise back then to be a slave, i was still too insecure and self-conscious so it probably wouldn't have worked out so well and i might have been put off the whole idea. So on the whole i have to say no, i think i was introduced to BDSM and met Sir at just the right point in my life.
Someone kind of asked this before, but it was a little vague....about do you wish you had met Sir earlier. Personally, do you wish that you had been introduced into BDSM earlier and met Sir Earlier? Like Early/Mid 20's instead of late?
i don't really see how that would have made my life better in any way. It would only have meant that i would have been married sooner and possibly had children sooner, but i don't consider myself to be an old mum, so i don't really see that as an advantage. i guess maybe if i'd known about BDSM in my early 20s and met Sir then we could have had more time together just as a D/s couple, training and stuff, before settling down to make a family. But then again i don't think i was ready character-wise back then to be a slave, i was still too insecure and self-conscious so it probably wouldn't have worked out so well and i might have been put off the whole idea. So on the whole i have to say no, i think i was introduced to BDSM and met Sir at just the right point in my life.
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