5 years in His collar

September 03, 2011

5 years in His collar

Five years ago, on 2nd September 2006, i was collared by my Sir in a private ceremony in our barn - you can read about that day here.

Since then i have been trained and molded as His submissive and then as His slave, following several sets of rules which have been adapted to our changing circumstances, learning slave positions and undergoing lots of training. i have earnt a total of 22 charms for my achievements and passed a total of 30 elements of training so far. i have made many friends in the BDSM world online, through my blog and in the chatroom that i visit and have got to know several of Sir's Dom/me friends and their subs/slaves better. i have even been to some play parties, served naked at BDSM dinner parties and had sex outdoors, none of which i ever thought i would do!

Of course, lots has changed for me and Sir during those 5 years - we are now married with 3 children and we had one angel baby too, we have extended and improved our house to accommodate the needs of our family and upgraded our car. We also had to deal with being in a car accident, my post-natal depression, losing pets and extended family members and having a disabled son. But we have come through everything together, united and still very much in love, very much husband and wife and very much Master and slave.

i know just how lucky i am to have found the perfect Master for me and i am so grateful everyday for everything He does for me. Happy anniversary Sir!