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- libby
- Essex, United Kingdom
- i am a collared slave, living with my first ever Master/husband, our little girl and our twin baby boys. This blog is intended to be a place where i can write freely, to express my thoughts, feelings, worries, desires and experiences.
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my week ahead
- ~ Sat 25th Feb - shopping for new furniture
- ~ Sun 26th Feb - Poppy's ballet lesson, slave training (kidlets at their grandparents')
- ~ Mon 27th Feb - William: ABA, baby gymboree club
- ~ Tues 28th Feb - William: ABA, osteopathy and physio
- ~ Weds 29th Feb - William: ABA, group therapy in sensory room
- ~ Thurs 1st Mar - William: ABA, stories and songs club
- ~ Fri 2nd Mar - William: ABA, speech therapy and hydrotherapy sessions (Finn with my mum)
Libby info
- ~ mine and Sir's 'story' so far
- ~ William's story
- ~ William's therapy schedule
- ~ my slave registration
- ~ my slave tattoo - Sept 2007
- ~ our symbols
- ~ my poems and favourite quotes
- ~ wordle for Sir
- ~ wordle for flame
- ~ 100 things about me
- ~ 20 D/s questions
- ~ who do i look like?
- ~ day in my life
- ~ day in my life with Poppy
- ~ day in my life with Poppy and the twins
- ~ our collaring day - Sept 2006
- ~ our collaring site
- ~ our engagement - Aug 2007
- ~ our wedding day - July 2009
- ~ wedding day vows and readings, etc.
- ~ Poppy birth experience - May 2008
- ~ Poppy's birth announcement
- ~ Poppy's baby site (up to 2 years old)
- ~ birth experience with the boys - Aug 2010
- ~ Finn and William's birth announcement
libby thoughts
- ~ Seven Deadly sub Sins
- ~ Seven Deadly Dom Sins
- ~ D/s as a belief system
- ~ slave needs
- ~ being vs doing in submission
- ~ slave realities
- ~ rules and rituals
- ~ online vs real-life submission
- ~ transitions in slavery
- ~ no matter what?
- ~ is kinky ever too kinky?
- ~ slavery: real or role?
- ~ does nature or nurture create a sub?
- ~ is slavery an illusion?
- ~ SSC vs RACK
- ~ M/s vs D/s vs DD
- ~ cyber BDSM stereotypes
- ~ discipline and punishment
- ~ do subs have different wiring?
- ~ slaves and consent
- ~ does it have to get more and more extreme?
- ~ can Doms be loving?
- ~ safewords
- ~ the sub vs slave debate
- ~ is submission a gift?
Upcoming Posts
- ~ equality
- ~ extreme M/s
- ~ paradox of control - my response
- ~ the G-spot - does it exist?
- ~ non consent
- ~ rethinking the 'gift' idea
- ~ the harm principle
- ~ BDSM and freedom
- ~ symantics and labels
- ~ BDSM and the law
- ~ symbolism in BDSM
- ~ the word 'slave'
- ~ two-way service?
- ~ porn
- ~ sex and kink
- ~ do i live to please Him?
- ~ resentment of control
- ~ collars
- ~ being vs thinking
- ~ is it harder to be a Dom than a sub?
- ~ self-respecting slut?
- ~ double standards
links
- ~ A submissive's journey
- ~ Albany Power eXchange
- ~ An Owned Life
- ~ BDSM Backroom
- ~ BEST slave training
- ~ Bondage.com
- ~ Castle Realm (from Internet Archives)
- ~ D/s Seekers
- ~ JT's Stockroom
- ~ Kink.com
- ~ Knotbound
- ~ Leather And Roses
- ~ Magic's World
- ~ Society for Human Sexuality
- ~ Soul's Haven
- ~ Submissive Guide
- ~ Submissive Journal Prompts
- ~ Submissive Loving
- ~ Taken in Hand
- ~ The BDSM Circle
- ~ The Iron Gate
- ~ The Slave Register
- ~ The Submissive Wife
- ~ Wipipedia
- ~ within Reality
useful articles
- ~ Total Power Exchange
- ~ Gorean lifestyle
- ~ Mentorship
- ~ polyamory
- ~ BDSM parents
- ~ pregnancy and BDSM
- ~ collaring ceremonies
- ~ sample contracts
- ~ needs and wants
- ~ slave positions
- ~ rituals
- ~ erotic massage
- ~ giving oral sex
- ~ Japanese tea ceremony
- ~ shaving tips
- ~ subspace
- ~ pleasure and pain
- ~ anal training
- ~ orgasm control
- ~ bondage techniques
- ~ guide to flogging
- ~ violet wand play
- ~ fisting
- ~ watersports
- ~ age play
beginners' guides
- ~ BDSM for beginners (Mistress160)
- ~ BDSM dictionary (Seekers)
- ~ BDSM terms (Leather n Roses)
- ~ BDSM 101 (Albany Power Exchange)
- ~ brief intro to BDSM (BDSM?)
- ~ intro to bondage and Domination (Albany Power Exchange)
- ~ the 'newbie' pack (Wizdomme pages)
- ~ so you want to be a slave? (Leather n Roses)
- ~ so you want to be a Master? (Seekers)
- ~ differences between a slave and a sub (Leather n Roses)
- ~ understanding submission (Peter Masters)
- ~ the 9 levels of submission (The BDSM Circle)
- ~ the 7 pillars of Dominance (Leather n Roses)
- ~ advice for the new Dom (Seekers)
- ~ online v. real-life relationships (Seekers)
- ~ ideas for long-distance relationships (Soul's Haven)
- ~ moving from online to real-life (Seekers)
- ~ safety guidelines (BDSM?)
- ~ play tips for beginners (Seekers)
- ~ creating a good scene (Where's The Hardcore)
- ~ safe words (Albany Power Exchange)
- ~ guide to munches (Leather n Roses)
- ~ play party etiquette (Society for Human Sexuality)
- ~ play partner checklist (DomSubFriends)
- ~ BDSM checklist (Soul's Haven)
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Labels
Best of others (updated 25th Feb)
- ~ '"Could i ever be vanilla again?"' (...with a sense of pride)
- ~ 'A confession' (Bunny Ramblings)
- ~ 'A different kind of love' (The Pervocracy)
- ~ 'A Letter to the HOH' (Husbandly Touch)
- ~ 'Aftercare' (Duality of Pain)
- ~ 'Asking' (Aisha)
- ~ 'Assent Matters' (Under His Hand)
- ~ 'Doing DD Or A DD Couple?' (Shelter In The Storm)
- ~ 'Domestic Discipline Obstacles - Children' (Learning Domestic Discipline)
- ~ 'Dominant?' (The Heron Clan)
- ~ 'Don't stop' (Sexual Dynamics: Memoirs of a Discerning Dom)
- ~ 'Fluid motion: switching' (One sub's mission)
- ~ 'give me flesh' (At Longing's End)
- ~ 'Going from strength to strength' (This girl's weblog)
- ~ 'He wants me to speak of his pain' (submission & metaphor)
- ~ 'lost in the maze' (The Journey)
- ~ 'Property Values' (Curvaceous Dee)
- ~ 'safewords' (Pain's Pleasure)
- ~ 'Spanking - It's Brain Science!' (Finding Sara)
- ~ 'Sub versus Slave' (A Master's Viewpoint Of The BDSM World)
- ~ 'Suffering For Greater Good' (A Dauntless Journey)
- ~ 'The "Cult of Aftercare"' (Pieces of Jade)
- ~ 'Thought for the Week...' (A Freedom to Submit)
- ~ 'Thoughts on androgyny' (Vesta's submission)
- ~ 'What is Submission to You?' (Submissive Guide)
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